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babyblues7 · 08-28-2007, 11:15 AM

Ive been married now for almost 10 months. Lets just say its been the most difficult 10 months I think I've ever had, relationship wise. From 1 month after we were married until now, my husband has cyber chatted with women, almost constantly. He knows how I feel about this and yet he continued to do it. I recently installed a key logger on my pc to track his online activity and I have found that he has been trying to get womens cell numbers and or home numbers to have phone sex. To say the least I am appalled at my findings. And actually we discussed this about 2 weeks ago, and we both agreed we would try harder. Well a week ago I have found where he has been doing it again! I just cant believe what I am seeing. I just dont know what to do about it. It really hurts me tremendously, I just cant believe that he thinks this kind of activity is okay.

He gets very upset when I talk to other people online, and the conversations are all of a general nature. Im just so astounded to think that he is still doing it, when I thought we had resolved this issue. I think maybe he just doesnt care about me at all or he has some kind of sexual addiction. But I have mentioned the sexual addiction, and had him answer a sexual addiction quiz and he says that he doesnt have that problem. Just not sure what to do at this point. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.

08-28-2007, 11:15 AM	#1 (permalink)
babyblues7 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: WV Posts: 26	Unfaithful? Ive been married now for almost 10 months. Lets just say its been the most difficult 10 months I think I've ever had, relationship wise. From 1 month after we were married until now, my husband has cyber chatted with women, almost constantly. He knows how I feel about this and yet he continued to do it. I recently installed a key logger on my pc to track his online activity and I have found that he has been trying to get womens cell numbers and or home numbers to have phone sex. To say the least I am appalled at my findings. And actually we discussed this about 2 weeks ago, and we both agreed we would try harder. Well a week ago I have found where he has been doing it again! I just cant believe what I am seeing. I just dont know what to do about it. It really hurts me tremendously, I just cant believe that he thinks this kind of activity is okay. He gets very upset when I talk to other people online, and the conversations are all of a general nature. Im just so astounded to think that he is still doing it, when I thought we had resolved this issue. I think maybe he just doesnt care about me at all or he has some kind of sexual addiction. But I have mentioned the sexual addiction, and had him answer a sexual addiction quiz and he says that he doesnt have that problem. Just not sure what to do at this point. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.