DennisM

Our argueing is what has brought us to the point of calling it quits. we got divorced and didn't even split up ( that always takes people awhile to comprehend), but through the years we both have done and made some pretty big mistakes and now it can be over the stupidest **** , at times after a "global thermal nuclear war" arguement i cant even recall what it started over, we have come to hold and use our mistakes and the things we trusted only telling each other of, against one another, we bring up things we know the other feels bad or insecure about, friends and family say we dont belong together, we have even been referred to by some as 'sid and nancy" ( if anyone knows who that is) We have no idea how to stop and it is killing what is a true and epic love. what ever you argue over, never go over that line, or below the belt, because once you do, it becomes easier and easier, and it costs both of you more than anything you were arguing about to begin with. One of the reasons im on here.... would love any advice, or tools that would help me save my soulmate, and best friend