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I think I was completley fair, to the unborn child that is. If the relationship has seen nothing but arguments since the beginning and thats WITHOUT the stress of parenthood, what kind of start is this little one going to get.
Whats not fair is a child being born into a warzone, thats not fair.What is not fair, Is a child being born to parents just thinking of themselves and not in fact what is best for the child. Simply believing that "life with children will be all we dream it will be" is not enough to excuse bringing an innocent tiny human being into a bad situation, which from the outset, the OP admitted that that is what it was.
All the single parents ive ever known ( my own included..I was braught up by my mum, brother by my dad) are just amazing and do a bloody good job.However all the parents i know in bad relasionships do nothing but damage their children emotionally on a daily basis. THAT is not fair.