Originally Posted by justabovewater
We've gotten along pretty well during the last year of separation, but just this past week I get the feeling that he's pulling away; not coming over to see his kids as often, not talking to me as often, etc.
You've been separated for a year. Of course he's pulling away. Separation means separating. If he's moving on with his life, that's going to put distance between you.
You say he's not coming over to see his kids as often, how often does he see them? how far away does he live?
Also, if he is spending what are marital assets on frivolous things, YOU need to take charge and come up with a divorce plan. If you haven't consulted with a lawyer, I'd suggest that you do.