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Thorburn · 05-21-2012, 09:37 AM

Let's say there is nothing other then she wants time to be with her sister. Some folks are like that. If that is the case then you are being overly sensitive and many of us here understand that based upon what you went through with your ex.

But many of us on TAM also see the signs as you are telling us. Not in every case but in too many the signs lead to the "OMG, I found out she/he is cheating". Now you are going to go into investigation mode. Do you want to do this?

Look at your options and try to figure out if this relationship is worth it.

If it was me I would move on. You are not married and there are other folks out there. Yes, it takes time to develope a relationship but if you find someone you can truely trust and love you will be better off.

Take this as test that did not work out. Learn from it.

05-21-2012, 09:37 AM	#9 (permalink)
Thorburn Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 1,428	Re: Flashback Let's say there is nothing other then she wants time to be with her sister. Some folks are like that. If that is the case then you are being overly sensitive and many of us here understand that based upon what you went through with your ex. But many of us on TAM also see the signs as you are telling us. Not in every case but in too many the signs lead to the "OMG, I found out she/he is cheating". Now you are going to go into investigation mode. Do you want to do this? Look at your options and try to figure out if this relationship is worth it. If it was me I would move on. You are not married and there are other folks out there. Yes, it takes time to develope a relationship but if you find someone you can truely trust and love you will be better off. Take this as test that did not work out. Learn from it. __________________ This kind of cosmic dumbassery occupies a temporal plane of ineptitude and lack of reason so profound a Zen master could spend a lifetime meditating upon its philosophical consequences.”