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Sandy55 · 08-05-2009, 12:05 AM

Worrying about losing custody and letting it control you is a HARD road, and to be honest, it is a COIN TOSS.

THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER, EVER want a custody to go to a JUDGE!!! IF AT ALL POSSIBLE HAVE IT SETTLED THROUGH MEDIATION!!!!!!

When you give it to a judge, BOTH of you have lost ALL control. ALL!

My DH would not even talk mediation...we ended up with a HOLY CRAP ending. He was as surprised as me, and had problems due to the decision of the darn court, too! It was incredible.

08-05-2009, 12:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
Sandy55 Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,205	Re: An old friend needs help Worrying about losing custody and letting it control you is a HARD road, and to be honest, it is a COIN TOSS. THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER, EVER want a custody to go to a JUDGE!!! IF AT ALL POSSIBLE HAVE IT SETTLED THROUGH MEDIATION!!!!!! When you give it to a judge, BOTH of you have lost ALL control. ALL! My DH would not even talk mediation...we ended up with a HOLY CRAP ending. He was as surprised as me, and had problems due to the decision of the darn court, too! It was incredible.