| | Re: An old friend needs help
Worrying about losing custody and letting it control you is a HARD road, and to be honest, it is a COIN TOSS.
THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER, EVER want a custody to go to a JUDGE!!! IF AT ALL POSSIBLE HAVE IT SETTLED THROUGH MEDIATION!!!!!!
When you give it to a judge, BOTH of you have lost ALL control. ALL!
My DH would not even talk mediation...we ended up with a HOLY CRAP ending. He was as surprised as me, and had problems due to the decision of the darn court, too! It was incredible.