unbelievable

If you were separated you weren't getting along great. If I leave a woman, she's basically dead to me. I don't return to the cemetary and dig her back up. She just doesn't exist. Naturally, if I had kids with her, I would communicate with her to the extent that it was necessary for the benefit of the kids. Once they are old enough to talk to directly, she gets buried. I don't hate my exes. They just no longer exist in my life.