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luckycardinal · 05-21-2012, 02:48 PM

Sounds like he's playing mind games with you, which is kind of silly. Too bad he can't come out and talk about what has concerned him and at least give you a chance to explain. That is what mature people do. My abusive husband has played these kind of games too like "I saw you looking at that guy" and I'm like "what guy????" I never even noticed the person he thought I was looking at. He has also called me a liar and tried to make me admit to things I know I didn't do and he will say things like "you are a liar and if you won't admit to me that you did X then the relationship is over." Back before I realized he was an abuser this drove me INSANE, but now I don't care and really just wish he'd leave.

If this is a pattern with your husband, I agree with the poster above - it may be best to just let him go if that is what he wants.

05-21-2012, 02:48 PM	#3 (permalink)
luckycardinal Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: down south Posts: 70	Re: My husband is paranoid! Sounds like he's playing mind games with you, which is kind of silly. Too bad he can't come out and talk about what has concerned him and at least give you a chance to explain. That is what mature people do. My abusive husband has played these kind of games too like "I saw you looking at that guy" and I'm like "what guy????" I never even noticed the person he thought I was looking at. He has also called me a liar and tried to make me admit to things I know I didn't do and he will say things like "you are a liar and if you won't admit to me that you did X then the relationship is over." Back before I realized he was an abuser this drove me INSANE, but now I don't care and really just wish he'd leave. If this is a pattern with your husband, I agree with the poster above - it may be best to just let him go if that is what he wants.