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He says to me, "I know you know what I am talking about and until you come clean and tell me the truth, I am not talking to you and this relationship cannot go on". I keep asking him, what he is referring to, and he won't tell me, he says he wants me to come to him and tell him everything. I don't know what the heck he is talking about!!!
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After 15 years of being together and 12 years of marriage, he doesn't have the DECENCY to discuss this with you like an adult?!?
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He is threatning on leaving the house, he is looking for a place to live, because he says I am not honest with him and don't trust him enough to tell him what he wants to know.
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HE is threatening to move out on you and your children because
YOU'RE NOT BEING HONEST?!? If this man was Pinocchio, his nose would be WAAAAY longer than his pecker!
Sounds to me like hubby is either (a) cheating on you or (b) tired of being married and wants to give 'the grass is greener' a try. He is hoping you will spill your guts about some misdeed (real or perceived) so he can blame YOU for the imminent break-up he's considering. If you HAVEN'T done anything wrong (and I believe you haven't), he is hoping you will say something that he can BLOW UP into the "reason" your marriage is failing/failed/he couldn't stay with a woman like that/blah, blah, blah.
Don't know HOW to get through to him how stupid his behavior is. My suggestion is for YOU to decide if you're getting enough GOOD out of this relationship (for the last 15 years into the current day) to justify being treated like a cheater, ignored, not being spoken to, threatened with separation and/or divorce, and not being treated decently enough to be told what your CRIME is....just that you're being accused of 'something'...now come up with a defense....... yeah, pretty sh!tty, isn't it?
