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I think it's definately good to expand your social circle with men and women. I know I needed to and have done so just to get back into the practice of it. Having said that I have to ask myself if I can look myself in the mirror if I start a relationship that gets or might get romantic before a divorce is final. I also don't want to tell someone to wait for me, as I'm not sure that is fair to them. For now my goal is to not start anything that may be romantic until a divorce is final. I feel that would help me with my self esteem. Not saying this is your situation, just a perspective on my own issue.