05-21-2012, 07:55 PM
Join Date: May 2012
| | Re: Serious concerns over this site.
Originally Posted by Myownperson
"As a whole the people here are simply awesome. The time and effort that they put into thinking about and advising others - complete strangers at that - is phenomenal." Thats my point.
"fall into a string of failed relationships as you have."
Really?, I was talking about teenage relationships, im in a stable marriage with no fidelity concerns at all..Oh but you wouldnt know that because you dont know me do you..you just assumed, as so many do on this site.
"Trollin, Trollin, Trollin on a river" I disagreed with the majority therefore Im a troll?
"Come back when you find out that your spouse has been fooking around on you. Maybe your tune will change. Why the hell are you on an infidelity site when all you have are petty marital issues?"
I do apologise, i was under the impression this site was called talk about marriage, as per google? You see this is my point "come back when you have been fooked around on then your tune will change" Its at that point you are so so so vulnerable. Ive seen suggestions of revenge affairs, leaving spouses penniless, exposing WS to their workplace ( because they deserve to have their career screwed up dont they?..on the advise of a group of people who have heard one side of the story) its unbelievable!
Revenge affairs: I saw that only in sarcastic responses, if I am mistaken...show me. Leaving spouses penniless....hmmm...can't recall those, but based on the people I have been in contact with, there was some underlying reason (and not bitterness) for the suggestion. Again, if I am wrong...Show me. Hmmmm yes. Expose at work if the affair is with someone at work and there is a NO TOLERANCE policy at work. Yes, expose the affair at work. However, I did notice you didn't address the part about making the affairs uncomfortable... to expose to family. How does that make you feel?