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I have up days and down days, i dont want to "try" to hard as it puts pressure on the relationship I think, but we do communicate well.
As my W and him never "broke up" in the traditional sense, rather they were caught I always suspect that they will harbour feelings for each other, she says she doesnt but is also not angry with him. I suspect if I said its ok if you want to go and see him, she would.
It has only been 4 months really since it came out fully, should she be "over" him?.