Originally Posted by iheartlife
Please don't let this be the explanation for a muti-week affair in a brand new marriage that should have been in its a honeymoon phase. Why did she think it was ok to respond? A self-confident woman in love with her husband would see this guy for the loser that he is. I suspect she has enough baggage to fill a moving van.
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I'm not letting it be the excuse. W is responsible for her infidelity but I can answer your question as to she thought it was OK to respond in the first place. Because she wasn't in love with her husband. He husband was being too much of a Nice Guy and her husband wasn't setting boundaries, apologized to keep the peace, and got treated like a doormat because he was a doormat. Therefore, W lost respect and went wayward. Is W weak for doing that, yes? Did I set my boundaries though, no. Is this another excuse from me to you saying it was OK for W to do what she did? No. I'm just being realistic/honest.