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Amplexor · 05-01-2008, 04:00 PM

There is no telling how long this will take. My wife admittedly still has strong feelings for him and the no contact has been in place for 5 months now. For her to fully reconnect with you she will need to let go of her feelings for him. You will need to, as I do, patiently wait for her to unfog. I believe you are right in not applying pressure about the marriage. That’s a mistake I see from spouses on a regular basis. Slowly rebuild your trust in her. Continue to communicate, laugh and spend time with the kids as a couple. If things don’t improve at some point seek counsel for both of you. There could certainly be some deeper issues here for you both. Keep your faith, love and patience and you have a good chance to recover. I hope your wife appreciates all of your efforts and comes to see what a strong man she is married to. Best of luck.

05-01-2008, 04:00 PM	#14 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 740	Re: Feeling hollow inside There is no telling how long this will take. My wife admittedly still has strong feelings for him and the no contact has been in place for 5 months now. For her to fully reconnect with you she will need to let go of her feelings for him. You will need to, as I do, patiently wait for her to unfog. I believe you are right in not applying pressure about the marriage. That’s a mistake I see from spouses on a regular basis. Slowly rebuild your trust in her. Continue to communicate, laugh and spend time with the kids as a couple. If things don’t improve at some point seek counsel for both of you. There could certainly be some deeper issues here for you both. Keep your faith, love and patience and you have a good chance to recover. I hope your wife appreciates all of your efforts and comes to see what a strong man she is married to. Best of luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.