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Chopblock · 05-01-2008, 01:04 PM

mom, your response came while I was typing.

Let me just say I'm so happy to see a forum that actually has success stories. All the others I've been on NEVER had more than one person say "we fixed it" and in that one case, there was some unique oddity that didn't apply to 99% of other people.

To all, I know its hard to say what you are feeling. I believe a lot of times the "rock bottom" that people refer to is actually the point at which the effort needed to fix the situation becomes more desirable than the consequences of the situation. Up until that point, the cure is worse than the disease, as it were.

I'm so happy for all of you. I really want things to work out with my gf, I love her so much and want to marry her, but I'm feeling trepidation about committing my life to her if we can't fix this problem.

05-01-2008, 01:04 PM	#18 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 178	Re: Do you think forcing us to wait makes us want it less? mom, your response came while I was typing. Let me just say I'm so happy to see a forum that actually has success stories. All the others I've been on NEVER had more than one person say "we fixed it" and in that one case, there was some unique oddity that didn't apply to 99% of other people. To all, I know its hard to say what you are feeling. I believe a lot of times the "rock bottom" that people refer to is actually the point at which the effort needed to fix the situation becomes more desirable than the consequences of the situation. Up until that point, the cure is worse than the disease, as it were. I'm so happy for all of you. I really want things to work out with my gf, I love her so much and want to marry her, but I'm feeling trepidation about committing my life to her if we can't fix this problem.