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Originally Posted by mommy22
We actually sat down and had the conversation on each part "What can I do to make this better?" He told me that he would need lots of reassurance to restore his manhood. He wants me to tell him I love him, stoke his arm, hug and kiss him in public. He wants me to outwardly show that I am proud of him and HE'S MY MAN! I, on the other hand, told him that I want him to take time to talk to me, be actively involved with the children, pull his weight around the house and just be my best friend again.
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My husband and I had the same conversation & I really think you hit the key to a strong marriage...to really WANT to make your spouse happy, no hidden agenda or in hopes of getting anything in return. Real AGAPE love. When you can't bear to see your other half sad, hurt, angry and you do what you can to turn that around, amazing results follow.