It sounds like you are misreable...I am sorry your marriage has been such a tough ride! Sounds like you have given him everything and it's time for you to give YOURSELF some pampering. You need to start to think more about yourself and what YOU need. If you have made the decision to lose the weight and go back to school, GOOD FOR YOU. Create a 5 year plan and stick with it. He should be willing to help out with the kids while you are helping yourself.
Good Luck
