I don't think it's an issue that women don't know that withholding sex is pretty much the worst thing you can do to a man, it's that they do know the affect it has on us and simply don't care or use it to their advantage.
I think most women don't see that they will only be cheated on eventually because they are so self absorbed by the power they think they have. The pattern I've noticed with my Wife is she will push me away regardless of what I do or don't do but blame the not having sex on me not doing things. This has made me stop trying already and I've only been dealing with it for a years and a half. I get it from time to time but I am overly critical and usually don't like it because I waited so long and I'm more pissed than horny.
I'll say it again, the only answer is PROSTITUTION! Getting it somewhere else is the only way of defusing the situation.
Trying to pander to your Wifes feelings and emotions is a temporary fix that needs to be maintained too much.
I had an arrangement with a girl I met on a personals site to meet up and mess and then almost like she knew somehow she gave it up that same weekend and started acting all nice and sympathetic for like two weeks after that. I put that other situation on the back burner because I didn't want to cheat until I absolutely have to, a conscience thing I guess, but I will in the future.
I'm done playing games or jumping through hoops to have sex with my Wife, and in doing so I'm taking that power away from her. I'm sure she will act all surprised and butt hurt when/if she finds out.
chopblock said it best when he said;
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did it ever occur to you that if you give it to him, maybe you'll get what you want?
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I have been the nicest hubby since she started being nice and caring after having given me sex, like out of no where. WHY?
Because she deserves it right now. WHY? Because she stopped playing games long enough to just do me and started acting nicer/less selfish too.
Unfortunately for her, she just can't not stop bring such a selfish B____ long enough to let me get over my hatred I have towards her because of what she puts me through.
She already blew it only after a week and a half, tisk, tisk.
I can't wait to see if she gives it up again right before I get it somewhere else, wouldn't that be creepy.