| | Re: There has to be some sort of explanation..right??
Originally Posted by cmjsweetc
When my friend came onto me it wasnt just out right nasty it was sly and once i figured out what he meant i plainly let him know that that would never happen i love my husband and respect our marriage. I didnt see anything wrong in the exchange so i didnt delete it or mention it to my husband just like any other time i text anyone..my husband was using my phone one day and i guess he decided to look through my texts and saw the exchange.
I agree i was very enraged and reacted accordingly but that doesnt make it right
I'm afraid your husband was taking revenge and left the pictures there for you to see them and see your reaction.
He wanted you to have a taste of what keeping things "hidden" means. Although you should have told him about those text messages RIGHT AWAY because now he thinks you've been trying to hide them [even-though you didn't delete them].
Obviously, what he did hurts a lot and it's not what a married man should do. It was immature of him to walk away and not give you explanation.
Try to have a quiet conversation with him and kindly ask him to explain you everything about the pictures.
Davelli0331: If a GNO, or alcohol, or an attractive coworker, or a past flame on FB were all that were needed for someone to cheat, then I think that person had that defect in their integrity all along. All they ever lacked was the opportunity to act on their lack of integrity and the circumstances required to rationalize it to themselves.
Last edited by lovelygirl; 05-23-2012 at 06:12 PM.