| | Re: im having a hard day, i keep replaying everything in my head.
Mom, is there a friend/neighbor/school-parent who might be willing to swap child care. They take the kids one night, you another. That might give you some grownup time without the cost of a sitter. I think you are correct, that the GF has been there for a while. He probably thinks there's no reason to hide now. I'm sorry, it really stings. Good luck with the child support hearing, and way to be a good parent!