| | Re: Trust Issues.....Dont know what to do
Sounds to me like there are three people in your marriage, even though, to the best of your knowledge, they feel like siblings. You do realize that you can still be friends with her AFTER she has moved out, right?
What you need to do is to live and be with your husband without any extra people in the home. Ask the friend to leave. You can still be friends and visit with each other, just separate households. In that way, you and your husband can feel like a unit together and not have a third party around to influence either spouse.