Originally Posted by snap
Take a bullet for her? Possibly. I took risks sometimes for total strangers.
But I think the question is off the mark. Taking a bullet is highly hypothetical, and most people without prior experience don't really know how they would behave. This is also more a matter of one's character and values than affiliation with person being saved.
A better question would be, would you take a second mortgage for your fWS? In my case - no.
Would I trust her my life? Possibly, but I'll think twice
I know it's kind of hypothetical, but I take it that it's a measurement on the level of trust. My trust before was totally unconditional. I guess that I trust her to some level now, but all the way... nahh.
I now know what she's capable of, and I know that her level of respect in my doesn't keep her from making af bad decission.
I like the mortgage comparison - I actually do think twice before we spend money on the house.