| | Re: wife not interested but still does it
I have the same problem with my wife. Menopause and kids == no sex drive.
Add to that a major distrust of doctors and you have a situation where she says it is the way nature wants women to be when they get older. So she won't even try discussing it with a doctor.
I've floated the idea of an MD etc. and it has been shot down every time.
So I don't have a solution to offer you, but I can say you're not alone.