in essence what OP is really asking-
do you blindly love and value your spouse over your own well being?
do you trust your spouse to care for you in the same way?
honestly we could make up all sorts of weird questions that have the same answers, I'm reminded of that Book of Questions
that was popular in the late 80's. It was just different morality and thought provoking questions.
(ie. would you rather pull the wings off of a butterfly or squash a ****roach? making you wonder if one life form is more valued than another)