| | Re: Is it to late to save!!!
While you are responsible for at least half the issues in your relationship, you share absolutely no responsibility for her affair. She owes that 100%.
Whether you're married or not, your in a relationship that in most states is considered a coomomn law marriage.
This affair is still new and I will be honest it sounds as if she is still in a fog about it
You need to go to the Coping With Infidelity forum here at TAM and do some reading about affairs.
It's possible that this affair (A) could still going on. What happened and how did you find out?
Is your GF texting a lot still? Did you have access to her phone before she moved out?