Originally Posted by Browncoat
I suppose I shouldn't expect my wife's ordeal to be any different. To be honest not sure why I have downplayed it... my best guess would be because she doesn't bring it up much at all.
I think this is a huge issue. I would even go so far as to say it is the primary reason for her attitude toward sex. I think IC for both of you, directed toward the abuse you each sufferred, is a must.