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Chopblock · 05-02-2008, 06:10 AM

"parading around him naked, offering to buy toys, just being blunt- nothing worked. "

My heart goes out to you that you are so motivated to fix the problem, you are making effort. You probably already know this, but a woman who is willing to do the things you did above is highly prized and would have no problem being fought over by men.

I don't want to sound silly here, but have you ever asked him seriously if he might be gay? It is a distinct possibility, and I have seen it happen (a friend's Dad came out of the closet after 20+ years of marriage with 2 grown sons).

Perhaps you should tell him that he really is better off admitting it if that is the case because then he can be really honest with you and honest with himself. Its a sucky position for you to be in, but it might very well be the reason behind his behavior.

05-02-2008, 06:10 AM	#8 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 124	Re: Need really honest advice from the men... "parading around him naked, offering to buy toys, just being blunt- nothing worked. " My heart goes out to you that you are so motivated to fix the problem, you are making effort. You probably already know this, but a woman who is willing to do the things you did above is highly prized and would have no problem being fought over by men. I don't want to sound silly here, but have you ever asked him seriously if he might be gay? It is a distinct possibility, and I have seen it happen (a friend's Dad came out of the closet after 20+ years of marriage with 2 grown sons). Perhaps you should tell him that he really is better off admitting it if that is the case because then he can be really honest with you and honest with himself. Its a sucky position for you to be in, but it might very well be the reason behind his behavior.