She may seriously want him to be controlling.
it turns me on no end, I also love being told what I can read and what I can't. However if a man tries to be dominant but gives in easily, that's not sexy.
If the books make you inconfortable you need to let her know you won't stand for her to be reading them, delete the book, and give her a thorough spanking. Tell her that you would love to indulge in her fantasies together, and make it all about the two of you. Give her a lot of attention. Take charge ASAP.
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