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Originally Posted by Chopblock
"You seem very angry. Cheating is not the answer."
Don't forget though: his wife has already cheated on him by choosing to withhold sex and not work with him on the problem. He is choosing not to be a victim anymore.
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Take it from a previous cheater, Carma, you don't want to do this. No matter what's been done to you, you don't need to seek vengeance. She screwed up in a major way and I completely understand your anger. Who wouldn't want to lash out? You can't do that forever, though. If you can't forgive, get out of the situation. Harboring the resentment is destroyiing you, not her. I am not an advocate for divorce, but counting wrongs against each other will only lead to a life of misery. Your child is young now, but it's only a matter of time before he picks up on it. You have two choices, forgive and move forward in your life with her or leave her. I know, I know, easy for me to say right? Just give it some thought. Your bitterness is eating you up on the inside. Can you really continue on like this?