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steelcurtain · 08-29-2007, 07:57 AM

~Well im sorry if your new marriage is not that of a romantic movie, or the one you dreamed of as a kid. I know first hand of how hard the 1st year of marriage can be, now granted my problems weren't as serious as yours but the only advice I can give is that for a marriage to be happy and healthy you and him need to be on the same page all the time, it take patience, alot of compromise, and dedication. You need to figure out a way for him to get it though his stubborn head that your not going to spend another minute worrying about his infidelity....however that may be!! Ask yourself this question: Do you want to spend the rest of your life like the past 10 months? Not if you want to be sane. Send him a message that is strong and totally out of your norm. Make him realize, that either im leaving (bags packed) or your going to freakin change. Be firm and stand your ground. And if that doesnt work then honey you dont want to be married to this guy, because it sounds like he rather be married to an imaginary person anyways...

~Look let me just say that I am totally against divorce unless there is infidelity involved. I dont believe people deserve 2nd chances in this situation. But I strongly believe if someone loves and respects you enough he will get the point and want to be a better person.

Anyways that is my 2 cents hope everything works out...and keep your head up...

08-29-2007, 07:57 AM	#2 (permalink)
steelcurtain Registered User Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Houston Posts: 23	Re: Unfaithful? ~Well im sorry if your new marriage is not that of a romantic movie, or the one you dreamed of as a kid. I know first hand of how hard the 1st year of marriage can be, now granted my problems weren't as serious as yours but the only advice I can give is that for a marriage to be happy and healthy you and him need to be on the same page all the time, it take patience, alot of compromise, and dedication. You need to figure out a way for him to get it though his stubborn head that your not going to spend another minute worrying about his infidelity....however that may be!! Ask yourself this question: Do you want to spend the rest of your life like the past 10 months? Not if you want to be sane. Send him a message that is strong and totally out of your norm. Make him realize, that either im leaving (bags packed) or your going to freakin change. Be firm and stand your ground. And if that doesnt work then honey you dont want to be married to this guy, because it sounds like he rather be married to an imaginary person anyways... ~Look let me just say that I am totally against divorce unless there is infidelity involved. I dont believe people deserve 2nd chances in this situation. But I strongly believe if someone loves and respects you enough he will get the point and want to be a better person. Anyways that is my 2 cents hope everything works out...and keep your head up... __________________ SteelCurtain....GO STEELERS!!!