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Originally Posted by vrwc  Hi Aug; Thanks for the reply. IF the affair (very brief, she claimed) did happen, how am I blocking her from releasing the guilt by being accepting? It was 15 plus years ago, and we now live literally 10,000 miles from where we used to. It's half a world and half a lifetime away.
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When she told you, was she angry? Was she expecting you to react? In anger? Did you get upset? Perhaps she wasnt getting the reaction that she expected from a BS?
Some other possibilities...
Any stressful happenings in her life currently? Is there a problem at work? With her family? With your family?
Did she lose some weight? Did she improve her appearance? Do you know if she's having an EA/PA?
You say she's in her 40s. Is she in perimenopause? If so, her hormones could be throwing her out of whack?
just some quick ideas...
