Originally Posted by Blanca
sounds similar to something i did a few years ago. my h and i were fighting constantly so one day i said (or screamed, hard to remember) that i was not going to talk about "us" for a week. my original intention was to try and punish him or something, but i ended up learning that sometimes one just needs a break from "us". it didnt solve everything, but it showed me that although things were horrid between us, i could still feel a semblance of peace, and that perhaps i was part of the problem.
Very rarely is 1 person the cause for conflict. When you have time to think and step back you see things clearer.