Originally Posted by Coaster

Any advice for me would be good...Im 45 and my wife is 52....We have seperated and she is in america and I am in New Zealand as my kids live here...She has 2 kids as well tho one is 22 and the other 17 and about to go to college...mine are younger in their young teens....Been married 6 years and going out for 8....Been a hard road for me as my kids have lived in different country and i was with my wife and her kids tho her kids dont really like me and she took their side...Things have happened between married couples and we are no different tho thought she should stand by me more instead of her kids...Anyway not sure what else to say and dont want to drag this out tho hope we do get back one day and wondering how she will be when her son leaves home soon for college...Will she miss me then??Lets face it our marriage should have nothing to do with anybody else should it....Im pretty sure she still loves me tho ive been away for 6 mths and maybe our feelings are changing....

Originally Posted by Coaster

Yes thanks for your reply and know this is hard for you too...Actually my wife is in america with her kids and mine are in nz and we dont have kids together so not sure I made that clear enough and yes i have been communicating with her tho she doesnt really much with me as she seems to only care abouit her kids and her parents...And even tho I havent been on best behaviour all the time during our marriage i can also say that she hasnt either and i get all the blame for this and living with her kids hasnt been easy either especially when she babies them like they are 2 or 3....