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Chopblock · 05-02-2008, 07:30 AM

"Is it normal for a man to not be into sex?"

I didn't think so until I hung out on relationship forums and heard stories like yours with women who try ANYTHING (costumes, toys, positions, locations...) to get desire from their men, and the men just say "whatever".

While its certainly the exception and not the rule, apparently there are men out there who just don't give a flip about sex. The question is: is that who you want to be with?

I can understand that after 30 years of not having to "share" his life, he is used to doing things his way, and that will probably not change.

I do think that setting up "date night" is a great step forward, especially since you will take turns planning it. Keep us posted on how that goes.

05-02-2008, 07:30 AM	#4 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 124	Re: Is Marriage supposed to be like this?? "Is it normal for a man to not be into sex?" I didn't think so until I hung out on relationship forums and heard stories like yours with women who try ANYTHING (costumes, toys, positions, locations...) to get desire from their men, and the men just say "whatever". While its certainly the exception and not the rule, apparently there are men out there who just don't give a flip about sex. The question is: is that who you want to be with? I can understand that after 30 years of not having to "share" his life, he is used to doing things his way, and that will probably not change. I do think that setting up "date night" is a great step forward, especially since you will take turns planning it. Keep us posted on how that goes.