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rrrbbbttt · 05-24-2012, 07:46 AM

Just some words of caution:

1. You are just at the begining of dealing with this issue, you are going to have some big downs in dealing with this so prepare yourself.

2. As bandit stated " Your wife needs to change, new boundaries, commitments etc.." Is she ready to do the work or is she simply putting on the emotional show to gather your sympathy. Sorry some spouses use the emotions as the way to fix the relationship and never do the work to fix what they did. They then feel because the felt remorse that is all that is required.

3. Take care of yourself, mentally, physically this is going to take a toll on you.

Just some thoughts.

I am sorry this happened to you and Good Luck.

05-24-2012, 07:46 AM	#8 (permalink)
rrrbbbttt Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 348	Re: My wife's one night stand. Just some words of caution: 1. You are just at the begining of dealing with this issue, you are going to have some big downs in dealing with this so prepare yourself. 2. As bandit stated " Your wife needs to change, new boundaries, commitments etc.." Is she ready to do the work or is she simply putting on the emotional show to gather your sympathy. Sorry some spouses use the emotions as the way to fix the relationship and never do the work to fix what they did. They then feel because the felt remorse that is all that is required. 3. Take care of yourself, mentally, physically this is going to take a toll on you. Just some thoughts. I am sorry this happened to you and Good Luck.