| | Re: Is it to late to save!!!
When I checked my phone records, the number only appeared for about a month. It was the end of March and through mid April. Every thing before that is family and our friends. I thought of the idea of her possibly having another phone and communicating with this guy in another way. I have 3 cell lines, my phone, her phone and a spare phone line which she thinks I disconnected years ago. I took the spare phone plugged in a wired headset turned the volumes down and set it to auto answer and mounted it in the dash of my car. I say my car because itís my car under my name that she drives to get back and fourth to work. There has been no activity of any communication going on or nothing suspicious. Iíd call it while she went to work and the time she got off of work or anytime she left the house. I believe her when she says it is over with this guy. She will tell you the truth no matter if it hurts you or not. And right know she does not care if she hurts me or not. Yesterday Iím hanging with the kiddo and the GF and I start talking about the Hall Pass. She is still confused if she wants to be with me or be single. So I let her have it, although I maybe able to get by with the mortgage and bills and a kiddo that I am seriously considering putting the house on the market. I told her we (kiddo and I) are not waiting for her and when she decides to come back we will not be there. I think I am just about done trying to win her over again. She doesnít know what she wants and I know what I donít want. I am not going into a financial ruin because she wants spaceÖ
as for the paternity of my child, she resembles me and is all was mistaken for my sisterís kid. I donít think I would ever want to know if she is not mine, I have been there since day 1.