Originally Posted by highwood
I hear you.....my H would start every email to his OW with "Hi beautiful"....when was the last time he said those words to me...at least 10 years previous. That hurt because it made me remember how complimentary he used to be previously and instead is directing that to someone that to me does not deserve it at all.
To me how can someone be beautiful when they are knowingly and willing flirting/emailing with a married man?? That makes them a cold cruel ugly person in my eyes.
Yes, and that she knew all the things going thru MY head, even worse (she acted like she was my friend). She told him that she and I didn't talk to each other. I knew she had designs on him. I knew it years ago...but ignored it because my husband was always the "flirting = cheating" and "I will never cheat" type. He still maintains that, tho SHE had designs on him... he never would have succumbed. Uhhhh...calling her "sexy" isn't succumbing?? Especially when you couldn't remember the last time you said it to me? But, tho he won't recognize his EA for what it was, because it never developed to the point that mine did, I guess... I am doing my best to move forward. It's tough when you don't know what to do because your spouse is dealing with bad depression, due to bipolar disorder (and they are not sure what type), and they keep throwing meds at him, which aren't working right. So, I am muddling thru it all.
Still wanna scratch the OW eyes out tho....