swedish

If he is in a rut with work and kid stress, maybe you both need to focus on having some fun outings together with just the two of you. It sounds like he's lacking down time to laugh and relax.

Do you initiate hugs/kisses/touching? If he is stressed after a long day, he might realize how good it feels to be held tight or to have a massage...if you try giving him what you want, he may just like how it feels and return the favor.