| | Re: Need a womans opinion
Zorro, good luck. I think you need to phrase it in terms of what you need and what you expect -- in other words, use "I" phrases. If she's at all like me, and it sounds like she is, she will not respond well to prohibitions, but she may well respond to hearing how her behavior makes you feel.
At best, she's just thoughtless. I hope this works out for you.