| | Re: How would you feel?
Oh boy! The two of you need to consider seeing a marriage counselor.
The routine with the dogs sounds perfectly normal to me. Are the dogs large breeds? Are they well mannered? You would definitely have a problem with my "baby". She stays with me all the time, since she is a companion animal.
The problem with your wife being scared you will cheat sounds serious. I used to have similar fears myself. Unfortunately those fears were warranted. Have you given her any reason to doubt you? Has she had abandonment issues previously in life? This is where a therapist should be able to help both of you.
Start thinking and behaving like a couple.