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Old 05-24-2012, 11:39 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by lonesomegra View Post
So I should be 'polite' but blunt at the same time?
I vote polite but honest. I like to know if I'm doing something wrong or not to someone's liking.

I also like to know if I'm doing something right. Maybe, "Wife I love that you take the time to cook for me. The veggies were awesome, but I don't think I cared much for the casserole."

I don't think saying you're fine when you're really feeling rejected is right either. Maybe admitting you feel a little hurt but you understand and are not angry would be better.

I dunno. I prefer the truth.
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