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Old 05-25-2012, 12:38 AM   #4 (permalink)
KathyBatesel
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Default Re: Sleeping seperately after fighting!

I withdraw when I'm angry, but I remind myself that I'm angry at another person's actions, and that despite what they did, I love the person. You're rejecting the person, which can hurt a relationship. Would you be able to share a bed if you reminded yourself that the person you care about is the one beside you, and that the anger will still be there later to deal with, but for the next little while, until you're both asleep, you can lie silently in the same room?
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