| | Re: need help - not bother about saving marriage but for happening right thing
Unless you are very young, the chances of your betrothed having had a prior bf or some previous experience dating are almost to be expected. Once she found that he was married, she cut him loose. And yes, she probably did have feelings for him at the time. It happens. She is now your wife and I assume that she is devoted to you now.
Yes, you do need time to cool off. Maybe get away from her for a few days and re-think your position? Definitely need to stay sober. You say that you still love her, which is a good thing. Remember that. And remember that we all make mistakes since we are human.
If you still love her, and she loves you, then what you should do is try to forgive her and forget the past. Move forward. Build you own life together and chalk it off as a learning experience for the both of you.
I hope things work out for the both of you.