| | Re: hurt and confused!!!!
You've done very well standing up to her. I'm sure your children as seeing a father handling a very hard situation with dignity and a spine. This will help them down the road because they will know you are the parent they can trust - the one who will be there for them.
Good job on sending the records to the OMW. Don't tell your STBXW, just sit back and wait for her to get angry - that will tell you that you got them through.