Honeystly

Yeah, I saw the bank statement of his (came to the house) and he pretty much blew the 56K! His cell phone bills alone were 4K in 3 months... I believe he transfered like 10K to another account, but everything else he either spent or withdrew from the ATM... So as far as that goes the money is GONE!!!
As to child support, that's actually all I'm entitled to. That was the child support agency estimate based on his income (works 3 days a week) vs. my income. Child support in Australia is a bit ****.
I texted the turd before and told him that if he wants to pick up the kids for the next 2 weeks or so, he needs to get a neutral party to pick them up for him, as I don't want to see him.. I told him it's an emergency solution for now. Good luck to him finding a neutral party though.... everybody hates him. I don't trust myself around him. Additionally, it just hurts me too much. After 4 months I have gotten to the stage where I can feel good with my kids and work, as long as I don't see him.
I'm also doing some letting go. I'm going to sell the piano he bought me for my b-day 4 years ago. I loved that piano, but now all I remember is him playing it right before he left me. He played these sorrowful songs that his new gf loves. So I don't want the piano. I'm trying hard, and I do have good days but I just go so angry since about a week ago. It was my little girl's Christening. He showed up 20 mins late, looking hungover and ****ty in general. Then he left right after, but not before asking our mutual friends (friends of his family originally)/ godparents if they could keep the Christening a secret from their and consequently his parents, because he didn't tell them about it. He blamed it on me when I told him that's not on. He said they wouldn't have been invited by me and that would hurt them. They are out of the country anyways. Everything that goes wrong is apparently my fault. That's what started all this anger, the slap was a culmination.