Originally Posted by draconis

I think you fear losing the control you have had, and fail to communicate in an effective way to strengthen you both. Sit down with him and tell him it just isn't your thing and you don't mind if he does it once in a while but you miss the "US" time with him.

My wife loves World of Warcraft and personally it drives me nuts so we worked it out so we both got what we wanted. I think you need to do the same because this isn't a big issue compared to what you might face in the future.

draconis