GAsoccerman

Sorry to hear that SweetP, I enjoy foreplay tremdously, almost more then real sex, because my wife gets so much out of it. I would not be with her, if she did not enjoy it.

there is a saying, "if your not happy, then go find happiness" staying in a marriage for the wrong reasons, is worse then getting married for the wrong reasons. If it won't work, then divorce and move on.

I agree with Drac, Child support is NOT free money. It is money for YOUR children, yes you are giving it to your EX, but the Money goes to your children Indirectly in some sort of fashion, I could not hold back from giving support to my children, I love them and want what is best for them, even if it means they get european vacations and I live in a trailer. My kids come first ALL THE TIME. But again I am not divorced so I am not bitter.

I know a few "dad's" that rather skip child support then see their children, because they feel they are just giving it to their spouse.

If anything, these fathers should unite and fight to change the laws as they currently are in funding formula's, it was based off when women did not have decent jobs. It's a different world now. My wife makes more money then me, if we were ever to get divorced, it would be a interesting battle $$ wise. But it won't happen.

I wish you all luck i this area. And Chop, she only let's me touch her after day 4 has passed....during the visit. First three I stay away hehe