| | Re: I slapped him!
You are entitled to $28,000, half of the marital assets, if he blew away your half, that is his problem---or you can just take the house completely, and he gets nothing in re: the house when you finalize your D.
Here in Calif, and the U S---you are entitled to gov't help, if your income is below a certain level---do you qualify, you also might be able to get help with the children, from gov't programs, and you won't have to depend on your H.
As to his lover, being with your kids, you might be able to get a court order, making sure she is not allowed near them
You can go on line, and look at all the Aust. codes, and see what can actually be done---you can also do some of these legal things yourself, or with the help of legal aid, or a paralegal----there are things you can do legally, time for you to do them, including garnishing your H. wages, if necessary.