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no1.daddy2kids · 08-09-2009, 07:41 AM

Over the past years, I withdrew from the marriage as initially we lived as two lone individuals, rather than two becoming one. We did not communicate right and did not understand each others wants and needs in a marriage. Because of this, I became depressed as I questioned whether I really loved her, since I couldn't deliver what she needed. By the time I came out of this and realized my feelings and am ready to work on this, she has found another (known him for a month and a half, but he is her soulmate, he is married too, and he is a Chaplain). Just a few months off of fixing this right.

I feel she is cruising for a rough ride (me too, actually, as I'd take her back and do what I needed to from the start and it would not be the same. Still love her). But she is hell bent on him being the reason for living. I'm sure it wont be long...

08-09-2009, 07:41 AM	#6 (permalink)
no1.daddy2kids Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 411	Re: What is destroying your marriage...in a nutshell? Over the past years, I withdrew from the marriage as initially we lived as two lone individuals, rather than two becoming one. We did not communicate right and did not understand each others wants and needs in a marriage. Because of this, I became depressed as I questioned whether I really loved her, since I couldn't deliver what she needed. By the time I came out of this and realized my feelings and am ready to work on this, she has found another (known him for a month and a half, but he is her soulmate, he is married too, and he is a Chaplain). Just a few months off of fixing this right. I feel she is cruising for a rough ride (me too, actually, as I'd take her back and do what I needed to from the start and it would not be the same. Still love her). But she is hell bent on him being the reason for living. I'm sure it wont be long...