| | Re: I feel raw and have to be nice?
The feelings of anger and hurt will cause you problems in life. Thy will eat you up inside and make you bitter. These negative feels can even make you physically and mentally ill.
The reason you need to be "nice" is for yourself and your children. You need to find a way to let go of bad feelings so that you can get to a point that you are in a better place mentally.
"Hatrid/anger are like taking poison and expecting the other person to die."
The best revenge is to live happy and well.